Face it, your kids are gonna rebel and use Comic Sans for everything.

But by the time they grow up info will be beamed directly into their brains obviating the need for type at all.

I don't think you can "enforce" your musical taste on your children (even on a subconscious level). I can only look at my family to see your upbringing doesn't have an influence on your personal taste. Best case scenario, you'll only be able to pass on your moral standards to your children and maybe spark an interest by showing them yours. Both my sisters & I all have different tastes in movies, music,... & overall different interests. I can't even seem to find a genetic reason in my entire family that explains my affection for typography, graphic design & sharks. I think the only thing you can do with your kids is to keep your fingers crossed & stimulate them in whatever turn out to be their interests.

All parents brainwash, to some degree or other, whether it's religion or other variant of behaviour. The trick, as you pointed out Paul, is to instill that sense of curiousity, along with the appropriate social skills to enable the child to navigate their society successfully.

> your upbringing doesn’t have an influence on your personal taste.

That's just crazy-talk!
But of course, never total influence.

hhp

Your upbringing can have an influence when the parent's interests somehow spark a similar interest in their children, but I think all children reach a period of rebellion & nothing (or very little) of all things that were "enforced" to the child will survive. Children can definitely be molded to a certain degree, but I think it would take some serious brainwashing to make it last through puberty ;-) Like Paul said, you might be able to make children curious about things, but you have to keep in account that children will come across other sources (school & mostly friends) that will have a much bigger impact on their final interests & personality.

I think brainwashing is a rather extreme term for the influence parents have on kids.

Like Paul I was pretty lucky to have parents with wide ranging taste and natural curiosity - they took me traveling from a young age and exposed me to lots of different types of food, music, culture. But I know I was lucky in that regard.

Choz - I used to know someone whose daughter joined a cult. She had to hire someone to kidnap her back, it was hideous. But I don't think that happens often - I know two OTHER people whose parents indoctrinated them into cults, now that is brainwashing for sure. One of them was Synenon (her dad was kinda high up in the pantheon there), I don't remember the other - some flakey group in Colorado.

I proudly indoctrinated my offspring in rockist ways from an early age. Things went well, took them to their first concert, Moist, in 1993 (aged 9 and 12). That was the grunge era, guitar rock on its way back, so the universe was unfolding as it was intended. But that was shortly before they discovered raves, techno, and hip-hop. If anyone ended up being brainwashed, it's me, as I've developed some taste for "their" music, which I generally find more interesting than today's guitar rock -- been there, done that. They've always been font people, the result of working with professional graphics software, on hand-me-down Macs with large font libraries, from an early age.

I am preparing for a worst-case scenario where he becomes the #3 sycophant to a cult leader, and wastes all his time, vision and resources to support some whacko’s half-baked ideas, and is eliminated by a federal sting operation with out even a notable obituary.

Wow, you really think he can make it as far as Speaker of the House? ;-)

LMFAO. Unfortunately it's too late for my brood. Now in their teen years, they regularly print out entire reports in display faces created by eastern european teenagers with names like "Demontooth" and "Crazy Uncle." Oh if only they would even consider Comic Sans. If you'd seen the horrors that I've seen you would run, not walk, to the nearest bookstore and buy this book. You may want to pick up a book on sucessful brainwashing techniques while you're at it...

Speaker of the House? Ouch, nice. ;) Like I said, it is a mental excercise, to brace for the worst, or even, if possible, figure out how to prevent that sort of thing before hand. Meanwhile, I still feel compelled to to teach him to become more of a happy, mindless drone that I ever was.

Fredo, once I persuaded my mother to appreciate the relationship of the lyrics to the music, she became a moderate fan of Korn, and keeps the first album next to her Phil Ochs and Peter Paul and Mary. She even through some insights my way about how she relates to parts of herself she isn't completely comfortable with through it. This has followed with an interest in the Randy Rhoads-era Ozzy, and lately she beginning to think suspect might be more than Arialvetica in the sans genre of type.

I hope I am still learning new tricks at her age.

I was named after Pat Benatars' daughter who was born 1 month before me. I'm a huge fan of classic rock and pop and i think it partly stemmed from being curious about the time and reasoning of my name.

Perhaps you should name your kid Spiekermann.

Too powerful? Well, I wouldn't mind that. What I mind is that they're so deathly predictable and boring. I can't remember any lyrics that surprised me (at least not after my teen years). I only like lyrics when they're part of the sound, like with Soul Coughing and goa. I goddam love goa.

hhp

I already decided to name my kids Agee and Sabon. Spiekermann is too much for a first name, and nobody would figure out if the name were just Erik.

Just know that "sabon" is the word for soap in some cultures.
"Sabon, pass the sabon!"

hhp

90s?! Now that's an insult!

What I like about the (alleged) lyrics in trance-style
music that they're stupid, but they know they're stupid.
The don't pretend to be "deep" - all deep thought does
to music is bring it down. It's like how watching a soap
opera in a language you don't know is so much better.

hhp

You know, if you meant 1890s then I'm more than cool with that.

hhp

Just tell her it's anti-typographic, I'm sure she'll come right around.

Oh, and Raffi rules.

hhp

>> My daughter begs me to put on Pink Floyd. She’s 8.

Last year, when he was 9, my younger son got a gift card to Barnes and Noble. He spent most of it on two CDs from the music section, where he chose albums by Tom Petty and also The Doors.

This book looks delightful, and I am sure I will purchase it very soon. I actually have a large children's book collection, and I especially enjoy my section dedicated to typography, such as Van Allsburg's "The Z was Zapped." and Lane Smith's "Math Curse."

...Pixies...

This would save me a lot of problems: Can I adopt her? Or is it out of the question?

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Virginie, is there any music she's not dancing to at this point? Our little one would dance to the faintest hint of any music at all, including grocery store isle crap. Now though he seems to have gotten bored of that. Must be my bad influence.

hhp

ooh yes, i loved "type detective story". really cool.

Is it fair to play eugenics with kids? i mean c'mon. How can u decide what a good taste in music is?

shreyas

Later on, as adults, they will rediscover your music and find it to be unaccountably beautiful.

Ah, yes, the return of disco.... ;-)

Just hope that doesn't happen to you! :-(

I grew up listening to everything from the Ink Spots (my parents' choice, not mine) to the Stones (when they played the blues), now it's mostly old Quebecois rock and minimalist classical (Cage/Glass/etc.).

It's a little bit of a late reply, but I was out most of the day yesterday.
Hrant, maybe you'll find a better appreciation for lyrics if you don't see them as a whole, but break them down to little pieces? Music has always been very imortant to me (unlike for the rest of my family; combined they don't even own half of my collection & they only occasionaly listen to them whereas I àlways have my headset on at home & never leave the house without my trusted MD walkman (the best **** buy I ever did)) & growing up I started paying more & more attention to the lyrics as well. There are still some I find close to poetry & others that sound worse each time you listen to them, but in almost every song, there's at least one thing that touches me. Not necessarely on an emotional level, but on a linguistic level as well. It can be something very plain, but described in a beautiful way (again I'm talking mere linguistics, no emotions attached). I write texts myself (mostly in English) which are probably best comparable with lyrics (without the music to accompany it). I've still kept the ones I wrote as a teenager & even though those are really predictable & overall crappy, there's always this one perfectly formulated sentence in each of them of which I am still proud to this day. Later on, I've started "experimenting" more with ambiguous texts & starting doing a lot of "wordplay". I have seen my texts evolving immensely in a few years time & I see the same evolution in the lyrics of some of my favourite bands. Right now, I'm completely consumed by the music of "the Smashing Pumkins" again (partially due to the upcoming new album) & the lyrics are mostly quite predictable, but there's an obvious evolution in them. The funny thing with them is that for a long time I misheard one part of the lyrics from "Tonight, tonight" & I was actually a bit disappointed when I read what they really said ;-)
I have many CD's from groups that might have benifited from limiting themselves to being instrumental, but if you'll look closely enough, you'll usually find something to appreciate. I have a little notebook in which I write everything that comes to mind that I can -at one point- use in one of my texts & I've also started writing stuff down from existing lyrics hoping to try & make a "compilation text" with them someday. A lot of them kind of lose their impact in the existing lyrics & some of them might even sound bad or pointless on their own, but they can gain beauty from using them with other lyrics. It's just a matter of finding the beauty in the beast. Putting a puzzle together with pieces from different puzzles & trying to make a nice (albeit abstract) picture nevertheless.
As for learning to appreciate your parents' musical taste, I think I've developped a love for it that exceeds my moms... Like SD's dad, my mom has gone from the Stones to Boccelli-like stuff. She even comlains to me when I put the Stones on now (luckily she still likes Janis Joplin & Bob Dylan) ;-) It just goes to show that people have no definite taste & are always changing. I wouldn't call this evolving at this point 'cause it still seems to me that her taste is going downhill, but maybe I'll learn to appreciate it in time as well... Either way, I think people's personal tastes (not only in music) are always influenced by circumstances (mostly interests & the crowd you hang with), but as far a "indoctrination" goes, I don't think ànything can survive puberty, it's just plain murder in the first degree ;-)

Later on, as adults, they will rediscover your music and find it to be unaccountably beautiful.

I'm with Mark, but to a certain extent, yes to Paul Simon no to Cliff Richard.

Hrant are you serious with: I hate lyrics ? How can you hate lyrics?

--N